Fuhhreeeedumm

I was often taught to keep my shameless positivity (and extra enthusiasm for all things beautiful and experiential) to myself, lest I overwhelm the other -or worse, I "disturb" the other (inversely, I be taken as the naive sacrificial virgin). Nobody likes to be shaken or stirred and everyone wants to keep things temperate, a way for staying in control and keeping the boundaries. but, and i mean BUTT, theres no other way to be free than to allow oneself this possibility - laugh for chrissakes, cry, notice those tense muscles contract then relax. Temperance will come naturally without your need to control anything.

*note to self*

From Sardegna